According to Erik Erikson, a famous developmental psychologist, the first of the eight stages of human development spread over the entire life-span is trust. Not developing trust at the earliest stage of one’s growth leads to major problems in life. Major mental disorders such as paranoia and paranoid schizophrenia result from one’s inability to trust and develop strong bond with others. Distrust is the reason for breakdown in all kinds of relationships between husband and wife, parents and children, and nations. All fights and wars start with distrust. Without trust there is no cooperation. We are able to drive on the road, for instance, because we trust that the person driving from the opposite direction is going to keep his/her side of the road. As oxygen is for survival so is trust for cooperation.
Before it is too late humanity needs to develop trust among its members. A crash course to foster trust for sheer human survival is essential. A compassionate, truth-based meditational approach in the place of current litigious legal system is very much needed. Training in effective conflict resolution skills, and building a just and equitable society where there is a fair distribution of wealth for all can go a long way in building trust. Societies that respect human rights and are free of corruption maintain and increase the trust level.
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